Women: Here and There

" Every woman needed a husband. Even if he did silence the song in her." One aspect of the book that really shocked me was the women's roles in the culture. Essentially, it is as if the woman's role is to play sidekick for the man. I don't know about other women, but I am no one's sidekick, so reading this is somewhat upsetting. In this modern age, with men and women attending the same schools and being treated nearly equally, the book's culture seems like it must take place light years away. This is not the case, but it is nearly impossible to relate to the plight of these women. Also, the humble way in which the women accept their place is unsettling. When Soraya speaks about wanting to live her own life of being a teacher regardless of how that would make her father feel, the first hint of independence is there, but the overall feel of the book is oppresive towards women. The stark contrast of the two cultures' norms makes it difficult to relate to every aspect of the novel, but it is very informative.