Probably A Daddy Issue

"Hassan never denied me anything." Throughout the first fourteen chapters of the novel, it is clear that Amir's relationship with Hassan is anything but rosy. Until Ali and Hasan leave, Amir treats Hassan like a servant. Really, he is his servant, but he is also his brother, in a non-strict sense of the word. They suckled from the same breast, as is mentioned many times. As bad as a brother might treat his brother, Amir takes this to a whole new level. He tries to get Hassan and his father fired, which is horrible because they are quite poor. While they leave on their own, it is not a pretty departure. Still, time after time, even in the last seconds of Hassan's time in the house, he looks out for Amir. He lies to Baba to protect Amir. Would Amir ever do this for Hassan. Clearly not. Amir watched Hassan get raped, all the while very concerned about his kite. Because of his bad relationship with his father growing up, it is clear that Amir has great trouble relating to others and caring for another person.